I usually consider myself pretty cutting edge and ahead of the curve when it comes to technology. However, I’ve yet to grasp the whole social networking thing. I look at MySpace and see not much more than a lot of ugly sites and little substance.
However, after reading much hoopla about Facebook, I decided to try it out. Here’s a record of my Facebook adventures.
July 2007
After reading several blog posts by noted web tech guy, Robert Scoble, I decided to sign up for Facebook. Scoble said in his blog that he would add anyone who wanted to be his ‘friend.’ I figured I’d at least have one friend, so I went for it. The signup process was pretty painless but long, since they ask you for a lot of personal information.
Scoble added me to his group of 5,000 close, personal friends. I added another guy who was a tech guy that said he’d add anyone as well. Now two friends! Whee!
I poked around and didn’t really see anything much of interest. I guess the point is that adding friends adds actual content to the site. No friends, no content. I added the Feedster application, which takes anything that you “share” in Google Reader and posts it in your Facebook news feed. This is a brilliant concept!
October 2007
I didn’t do much on Facebook since I signed up. I logged in a couple times and poked around. I got an email that someone wanted to add me as a friend. His name sounded familiar so I added him. I sent him a message saying, “where do I know you from?” He said he signed up for my BibleMemory.us program, but accidentally added me as a friend. Wasn’t sure how that was possible, but oh, well! I had 3 friends now.
January 2008
I got another email from someone from the BibleMemory.us program requesting I add her as a friend. I kind of just let it sit in my inbox- I wasn’t sure if I should add women to my list of friends. I’d read about people running off together after online affairs, and I don’t want that to happen, that’s for sure. Not that I’m anything worth running off with!
March 5, 2008
We were talking about social networking in a meeting at work today. If this is finally getting to my company’s level, I know I’ve practically missed the boat! I gotta get into investigating this.
I got another invitation to add a friend. This person’s name didn’t sound familiar at all, but I figured I’d add it for fun. Turns out, he has a friend with the exact same name as mine and added me thinking I was his friend! I’m not exactly “John Smith.” This is getting kind of weird. Will I ever have a true friend?
For fun, I plopped my Gmail password into the “Find Friends” thing- turns out 300-some odd people in my Contacts are Facebook members! Even the Pastor of my church! Now we’re getting somewhere. I didn’t send an invitation to all those people yet. Considering the ramifications: time and otherwise.
I spoke to my wife about adding women as friends. I told her I didn’t have any interest in an online affair. She trusts me fully, so I started adding women.
I usually feel very uncomfortable emailing ladies other than my wife (except at work) and always “Bcc:” my wife in such email correspondence. I’m sure the Enemy of my soul delights in married men and women inappropriately corresponding via email with people of the opposite sex. It’d sure be an easy way to cheat or start an affair. I figure I’ll use this to communicate my comings and goings with a group of people, not individuals. As if anyone cared what I was up to. I’m thinking that’s the idea behind these social sites, right?
March 6, 2008
I added a guy I was friends with in High School, who quickly responded and sent me a message. I’m feeling very excited about this. I’m going to do the Gmail thing later. If you get an invitation from me and don’t feel inclined to add me as your friend, I can’t say I blame you!
At lunch, I posted a ’status’ message, saying what I was doing, kind of like “Twitter.” What I was doing was boring, but I thought to myself that I wouldn’t mind knowing what other friends were up to, so maybe they wouldn’t mind knowing what I was up to. This seems to be a nice way to tell people about your day, but in a low-key kind of way, rather than calling and bothering someone.
March 7, 2008
So last night, I sent invites to everyone that was already on Facebook in my Gmail contacts. Almost immediately I got responses. It was really fun to see people coming into my inbox that I haven’t seen or spoke to in some time. Also fun was reading people’s profiles and learning a little more about them. I was ashamed of my stupid profile, and wish I had given it more thought. It’s at the top of my to-do list to update it and not be so tongue-in-cheeck.
In summary, it’s been fun. I think I’ll enjoy it and not get carried away. If you want to be my friend, it’s Robert Parmelee, North Jersey, NJ.
For your consideration, here’s some links to opposing views regarding Facebook and other social networks :
I’m Gonna Have to say No to Facebook - Rick Mansfield
My One and Only Week on Facebook - Joshua Harris